Be Still...

YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE.
 THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO WAY YOU CAN......

SO DON'T SET YOURSELF UP FOR FAILURE BY TRYING TO DO SO. DO WHAT IS GOING TO MAKE YOU HAPPY. REGARDLESS OF ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. IT IS YOUR LIFE, YOUR HAPPINESS, AND YOUR CHOICES. YES, SOME OF YOUR DECISIONS MAY AFFECT THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU, BUT DOESN'T EVERY DESICION IN SOME WAY?

YOU HAVE TO DO YOU. YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT YOU WANT AND FEEL IS BEST FOR YOURSELF BEFORE YOU WORRY ABOUT WHAT EVERYONE ELSE AROUND YOU IS GOING TO THINK.

I'VE BEEN SO BLESSED WITH A FAMILY WHO DOESN'T JUDGE. THEY KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT ME, AND QUITE FRANKLY HAVE EVERY REASON TO WORRY IF I'LL MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION IN SITUATIONS, BUT THEY UNDERSTAND SOMETHING THAT MOST FAMILY MEMBERS DON'T, THAT I AM GOING TO DO WHAT I WANT, AND FEEL THE NEED TO DO, AND THEM GOING AGAINST IT WILL ONLY BRING TENTION BETWEEN US.

IT MAKES ME SO DISAPPOINTED TO HEAR THAT THE REASON PEOPLE DON'T GET MARRIED TO SOMEONE, DATE SOMEONE, OR DO SOMETHING THEY WANT TO DO, IS BECAUSE OF WHAT THEIR FAMILY MIGHT THINK. MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE I'M NOT A JUDGMENTAL PERSON...I'M NOT SURE, I JUST NEVER HAVE BEEN. I KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT, AND WHAT IS WRONG, AND I KNOW THAT MAYBE SOMETIMES THE THINGS PEOPLE DO ARE SELFISH, BUT I WOULD NEVER TELL SOMEONE TO DO SOMETHING A CERTAIN WAY OR DO IT DIFFERENTLY.

PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN ON THEIR OWN TIME, IN THEIR OWN WAY, AND IT DOESN'T MAKE IT ANY EASIER TO DO THAT WHEN YOU FEEL PRESSURE FROM EVERYONE ELSE AROUND YOU TO DO IT THEIR WAY. THEY WILL LIVE THEIR LIFE, AND YOU WILL LIVE YOURS. THAT'S HOW IT SHOULD BE....I DON'T BELIEVE YOU CAN LIVE UP TO YOUR FULLEST POTENTIAL AND LEARN ALL OF THE THINGS YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO LEARN IF YOU ARE LIVING FOR OTHER PEOPLE EVERY DAY. YOU NEED TO FIND YOU, AND STICK TO YOU.

IT SOUNDS SO CLICHE' "DON'T CHANGE WHO YOU ARE" BUT IT'S HONESTLY SO TRUE...WHY BE ANYONE BUT YOURSELF?

"YOU WERE BORN AN ORIGINAL, DON'T DIE A COPY"

MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS, AND DO WHAT WILL TRULY MAKE YOU HAPPY AND YOU OR ANYONE ELSE WON'T HAVE TO WORRY OR REGRET IT.

YOU KNOW YOU BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE, I DON'T CARE WHAT YOUR MUM, BOYFRIEND, SISTER, BESTFREIND, HUSBAND OR ANYONE ELSE SAYS.

YOU ARE YOU, AND THAT'S TRUER THAN TRUE.....HAHA

DO WHAT'S GOING TO MAKE YOU HAPPY. PERIOD.

THAT'S MY LIL SPEAL FOR THE DAY......

XOXO DEMI